My
name is Alan Giroux and I worked with Dave
for the last 7 years and was a friend of
nearly 22 years. Dave’s death at the
end of May was not at as much an unexpected
consequence of life, but a sudden jolt of
harsh reality. I guarantee that everyone
in this room just stopped in their tracks
when they heard of Dave’s passing.
Really
made you think, didn’t it?
We live, we die.
My
father died recently at the ripe age of
93. He had a very rich fulfilled life. Can
we say that Dave had a rich fulfilled life
passing on at a very youthful age of 39?
The
very fact that we are all present at this
moment to honor the spirit of David Paul
Brown reaffirms this notion.
Dave’s
entire life was really about people. He
absolutely hated being alone. God knows
he worked too hard, seven days a week, 10
hours a day, for four days as a talented
graphic artist for Bashas and his own DP
Design and the other three days as a sales
person for the other artistic love of his
life,
the comic book.
Dave
always wanted to feel needed. He could not
say “no” to people. He was loyal,
to a fault. His very nature was to help
others, be it the homeless, or to the children
for their quest for comics and cards under
his watchful eye on the weekends.
We
only wish he would have taken more time
to help himself. Ever the caustic and sarcastic
pundit, I would chastise him about his………diet,
and the minimal four hours of sleep he gave
himself at night, but he could be…….
stubborn, as we all know.
Longtime
Brown family friend Carla Carter told me
that Dave told her shortly before he died
that he had no regrets about his life. He
was content.
I
pray that Dave truly felt this way, because
I regret, and I think we all should regret,
that Dave wasn’t given a second chance,
a second chance to do the things we all
take for granted, to laugh, to love, to
find that special someone to cherish into
your golden years. But for David, It was
not to be.
David
was a believer in causes, emphatic about
the ones that help people in need. Leading
Dave’s list was the charitable organization
ACTOR, a charity that benefits and supplements
retired comic book creators. An art show
benefit organized by Dave and held at our
store last November generated over $1000.00
for the organization. ACTOR director Janine
Bielski emailed us this after hearing of
Dave’s passing…….
“I
had the pleasure of working with Dave while
he put together The Art of The Comic Book
event to benefit ACTOR last year. He was
a wonderful person to work with and will
be greatly missed by us. His generosity
and energy consistently inspired us and
his dedication to our organization was greatly
appreciated."
A
fund is being set up at ACTOR to honor the
spirit and commitment of David. Our goal
is to generate $1000.00 in Dave’s
name. We are accepting donations at our
store, and I assure you, every penny you
give will be donated in Dave’s name.
Dave would want this, so do it for him.
To
Harold, Sharon and Philip, we are truly
sorry for your loss, and Marsha and I will
certainly miss as I used to always call
Dave “da Big Guy”. |